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12th April 2018
05:00pm BST
"We have only been doing this about five years, but I'd guess that if we were to follow up at the ten year and twenty year marks we would have a pretty good hit rate for predicting this.Here are some reasons why:
"We spend 8, 10, 12 or more hours in a day looking at the bride and groom through a frame that isolates them alone and together, largely stripping away the broader context and focusing on their interactions. We are looking specifically for moments of contact, of intimacy, of emotional connection. It pretty quickly becomes evident when those things are there, and when they are not. "We also spend a lot of time listening to the language they use in pre-meetings, engagement shoots, on the wedding day, etc. It becomes pretty clear in a short time what the focus is. Many couples, particularly young couples, pretty clearly have in mind a wedding but have put little thought and planning into a marriage. The difference we see between a young couple and an older/second marriage couple is pretty significant".
The Reddit user then went on to say that how a couple's family and friends act around them can tell a lot too about whether they agree with the couple's decision to wed, referring this to the amount of 'community support they have'.
However, he then clarifies that if two people are really in love, the lack of community support won't really matter.
You can read the post in full here and although it's not a new Reddit addition, it's one that people have a significant interest in nonetheless.Explore more on these topics:
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