Christmas will be a busy time for the Women's Aid helpline

Ahead of the Christmas break, Women’s Aid says that this time of year can be a particularly challenging time for women and children subjected to domestic violence or abuse, as they are forced to spend more time with their abusers, along with the extra pressures this time of year brings.

The national organisation, which works to prevent and address the impact of domestic violence and abuse, is encouraging anyone in such a situation this Christmas to reach out for support, with the National Freephone Helpline remaining open 24 hours a day, every day. 

The National Freephone Helpline offers interpretation services in 270 languages, so it is there for any woman uncomfortable using English to discuss what is happening to them. 

While the Christmas period is a time for rest and celebration for many people, the extra time at home, social gatherings, and extra financial stress can make it a frightening time for anyone subjected to violence and abuse. 

Often, women report more severe levels of abuse and increased frequency of abuse. 

Linda Smith, Head of the Women’s Aid 24hr National Freephone Helpline Services, explains that there are a number of factors that result in women feeling isolated and alone at this time of year. 

“It is so important to us to remind everyone that the National Freephone Helpline will remain open 24 hours every day over the Christmas and New Year period. We are here for anyone who is being subjected to violence or any type of abuse, or for anyone supporting loved ones. While many families look forward to schools, offices, and other businesses closing for holidays, this can leave the women we support in dangerous situations."

"It is horrific to think that instead of enjoying a Christmas film, putting gifts under the tree, or sharing love and connection, some women are feeling terrified and humiliated. We want them to know that we are here and we can help, even if it is just to talk or work through their options. Physical, emotional, sexual, and economic abuse does not go away just because it is the festive season.” 

Women's Aid expects the helpline to be busy over the New Year and in January too.

Sarah Benson, Women’s Aid CEO, added:  

“This can be a very isolating time of year, with many of the services and places that women rely on for support or peace closed. So, we know our services can be extra important at this time of year, and it is important that we get that message out far and wide. Abusers thrive on creating fear and exerting control. The fear of what might happen is always there, and victims- survivors know that one change in mood can cause untold damage. 

"Abuse does not always stop when someone leaves, and Christmas can also be extremely hard for women who are separated from their abusers, as they must hand over their children for access, while many abusers use Christmas gifts to coercively control their children and ex-partners. They may not pay maintenance or pay it late to limit what women can buy for Christmas, and then shower the children with gifts themselves. While victims-survivors of domestic violence and abuse face horror and fear all year round, Christmas is a particularly difficult and stressful time.” 

Support is available on the Women’s Aid 24hr National Freephone Helpline on 1800 341 900 or at www.womensaid.ie  

Support for men: National Male Advice Line 1800 816588 – www.mensnetwork.ie 

Donate to the Women’s Aid Christmas Appeal at www.womensaid.ie/donate