A hot topic of conversation here in Her last week was that of our porn-watching habits.

While some of us admitted to enjoying the odd dabble now and again, others revealed they had only ventured into the world of adult entertainment once or twice – and it wasn’t an enjoyable experience. So we turned to you, our lovely readers, to see what your thoughts on porn were. And the results were not at all what we were expecting. A surprisingly low 47 percent said that they enjoyed watching porn, but only when they were alone. An even more surprising 45 percent said that they don’t watch porn at all. And the remaining eight percent said they choose to watch porn with their partners.

We're looking into women's porn watching habits, so we want to know do you watch and with whom? Let's be honest ladies ?

— Her.ie (@Herdotie) May 18, 2017

Now, while we understand porn might not be everyone’s cup of tea, we got to thinking that maybe it’s because we’re not finding the right type of porn. It can be pretty murky waters, and usually an odd Google search would only result in porn which is borderline abusive and far from the pleasurable experience it claims to be. So, we’ve been on the lookout – purely in the name of research, of course – for some sexy sites that are sure to get your blood flowing. So ladies, at the risk of speaking too soon, you’re welcome.  

1. Hysterical Literature

Cost: Free Steamometre:  Content: A series of videos of women reading passages from books while someone stimulates them under the table. The ultimate reaction cam.  

2. Lust Cinema

Cost: €16.66/month Steamometre:   Content: Feminist porn that highlights the ‘intimacy, love and lust in sex, where the feminine viewpoint is vital’. Erika Lust also turns viewer submitted desires into full length films in her XConfessions series - well worth a look.  

3. Orgasmic Tips for Girls

Cost: Free Steamometre:  Content: This blog is full to the brim of videos, gifs, pictures, and personal stories. A space where women's pleasure is celebrated, many even seek advice from other users. But beware - there's so much content, you'll be scrolling for days.  

4. Make Love Not Porn

Cost: €5 per video Steamometre:   Content: Created by sass queen, Cindy Gallop, this site showcase 100 percent real sex. Yep, couples submit there own videos for everyone else to enjoy. Which sounds a lot weirder than it is. “We are not porn – porn is performance. We are not ‘amateur’ – a label that implies that the only people doing it right are the professionals and the rest of us are bumbling idiots. (Honey, please.)” YAS!  

5. Sounds of Pleasure

Cost: Free Steamometre:  Content: This one does what it says on the tin. This Tumblr account is filled with audio of people finding pleasure in all sorts of ways, and there are even some clips with instructions for you.  

6. Lady Cheeky

Cost: Free Steamometre:   Content: This award-winning Tumblr page is chockablock with all the videos, gifs and pictures you could possibly need. There’s also some very informative information on there like sex toy reviews and sex tips for every situation.