On screen we know him as a cheating love rat but Made in Chelsea's Spencer Matthews insists he's just a big softie underneath. It appears the reality TV star wants nothing more than to meet the right woman and settle down...or so he says anyway. In a recent interview with Closer! magazine, Spencer said: 'I don't think I'm a love rat and while I enjoy being young and with no commitments, I find the idea of a wife and kids and a white picket fence very idyllic. I'd love to find the right woman and start a family. Spencer pictured with former flame Stephanie Fans of the show will know that Spencer has always had a soft spot for former flame Caggie Dunlop. However, he insists that the ship has sailed, saying "Caggie is very special to me, but I now think if it was meant to have happened, it would have done. But she'll always be a special person in my life". During the show, Spencer often hangs out with his former girlfriends (and Made in Chelsea stars)  including Lucy, Louise and Stephanie and it seems this is a regular occurrence for him, off-screen as well as on. "I went to the cinema the other day with [Caggie] and Lucy Watson. I try to stay close to all my former flames". Spencer to settle down... we won't believe it until we see it.